Considering a Bespoke Wedding Dress FAQs

written by Rachel Lamb
3 · 02 · 18

Continuing my mini series on my Bespoke wedding dress design service, this is a post about considering a bespoke wedding dress FAQs. I thought it would be useful to take a look at the most common FAQs that I get asked by brides-to-be. These questions come up over and over again, so grab yourself a cuppa and settle in for a long read.


How long does it take to make a wedding dress? 

There isn’t one answer! It depends entirely on the design of the dress. If we put the hours end to end it can be anywhere from approximately 40 hours to 160 or more. It could be more or less than this, but this is average for me and my work. However, the way I work means the hours are spread out over months, rather than worked from start to finish in one go. I time the hours it takes to create every dress, so I have a good idea of how long a particular design might take to make.




What lead time do you need? 

Usually 6 months or more, but often it’s less than this. If you’re considering a bespoke wedding dress, a year is ideal. 18 months is wonderful. If it’s a complicated design or requires much thought or the bride is not available regularly for fittings, 2 years is not unheard of. Again, it depends on the design and the time of year and what is already booked into the schedule. The shortest turnaround I’ve done is 1 month, during the winter! The best thing is to always ask. Sometimes I get very booked up for certain times of the year and can’t take on any more work, but if this happens I try to put a post up explaining the situation.



How much do your dresses cost?

It depends on the design. Generally speaking Bespoke is from £1000+ to wherever the design takes the price, and the Collection dresses are currently between £900 – £2800 with simple separates from £300. I mentioned in my previous post that Bespoke can be as simple or extravagant as you want, so these prices are a general guide. But the best thing is to ask. Your wedding dress could be more or less than these prices – it just depends on your requirements. Generally my prices are very competitive. Lace dresses tend to be more pricey because lace is more costly per metre, and more complicated to work with. Certain weaves of silk fabric can be costly per metre, as are multiple layers of fabrics, for example skirts with many layers. On the other hand, synthetic fabrics are very good these days and can reduce the cost of a wedding dress in some cases, again – depending on the design. So I can make the same design in different fabric types and it will give a different price. Update: there are many ‘eco’ bridal fabrics being introduced. These are often made from recycled yarns or are organically produced if they’re made from a natural fibre.


What happens if I don’t like it / it doesn’t suit me?

This is a really common question and totally understandable if you don’t understand how the process works. So I’ll try to explain in general terms and then go into more detail:

I have never had a bride who didn’t like her dress, because after plenty of discussion and finding out your likes and dislikes, I will already design a wedding dress for you and you have agreed to the design – a design that you presumably love and are excited about! It’s likely you will have ideas about what you want anyway, and I will suggest ideas too based on our discussions. We will look at fabrics together and you may have tried on some of my designs to get a feel for what suits you. You don’t have to do this – some brides don’t try anything on beforehand and others try on virtually everything I have!

Bespoke wedding dress sketch by Rachel Lamb Design


So I’ve sketched your design and you’ve chosen your fabrics with my guidance as to what will work for your chosen design.

You aren’t expected to know exactly what will work and what won’t. I am here to advise and guide you towards making choices that give the best results. The results that you want.

Pattern drafting for a bespoke wedding dress

You have several fittings in a mock up fabric toile, such as cotton calico. This is not the actual fabric your dress is made in. We have fun creating and fine-tuning your dress design together in 3D while you’re actually wearing it during fittings. These initial fittings are very precise. It’s not just a case of ‘taking it in a bit’. The whole outfit is balanced and fitted to suit you and your proportions. If a feature is in the wrong place – say a seam is too low, or you’re revealing too much cleavage for comfort, for example, we move it to where you would like it. This happens then and there, so you can see it in its correct place straight away. It’s only when you are happy with your prototype design that we cut out the real wedding dress. Therefore as we’ve also already been draping the real fabric against you during your toile fittings and playing around with trims and volume in the mock up, by the time it comes to your first fitting in the actual fabric – the start of the real dress – you already know what your dress is going to look like proportionally and design wise. Once we’ve cut into your actual dress fabric you continue to have fittings to fine tune it. Often at this stage we might play around with where a particular trim goes or how many lines of beading you might want, or the exact placement of the lace, if this is something that we didn’t decide at the design sketch stage.

The whole process is one of incremental adjustments to achieve the look you desire. It’s very exciting and fun to create a design together! It’s not like going to have your hair cut – where the stylist is doing something for you that cannot be reversed. If the worst happened (and it never has) and you didn’t like something, I will correct it, or start again.


Paper pattern for a bespoke wedding dress
Bespoke wedding dress calico toile

A toile showing alterations

I do: constantly check in with you throughout the fittings to explain what I’m doing and to ask what your preferences are: For example:

Is this okay? How do you feel about this length here? Is this enough fullness/tightness/giving you the look you want? No? OK – let’s adjust that fullness now (for example), while you’re here in your calico toile (prototype) so I get it right before you go.

I do: ask you if you have any comments, worries, are not sure about anything etc at the end of every fitting. I always give you the opportunity to comment and have your say – it’s your dress, not mine!

I don’t: Demand that you stick exactly to the design as sketched if something different occurs during the fitting that looks better! This is the beauty of commissioning a dress in that sometimes happy accidents occur during fittings and you end up with something even better than originally planned! Sometimes we might decide to lose a detail too if it looks great without it, or add more of something because it looks good. Generally speaking there is an element of flexibility in the design – it’s all about what looks good on you.

Back to the original question: ‘What happens if I don’t like it?” You have watched, experienced and had a say in the design from the start and seen your wedding dress evolving while you’re wearing it during your fittings. It’s not a case of turning up at the end and I present you with a finished dress without you having seen any development of the design since the initial sketch.


Review of Rachel Lamb Design

Well done for reading this far! This is a post about the FAQs that come up when you’re considering a bespoke wedding dress.

Have you ever made a dress you didn’t like?

No, but I’m human so naturally I might prefer some designs over others. Even if the design is not really to my taste, I am always proud and flattered that I’ve been chosen to make something so special for a bride. Every dress is a learning curve and every bride is a different personality with a different body shape, so it’s more a question of having pride in all my work, and a sense of achievement and satisfaction when it’s finished and I have a happy bride!


What happens if I change my mind about the design?

This has happened, but thankfully it’s rare. Depending on timescales I would do my best to change the design or restart it if it’s very different. The service is not about forcing you to have a design you don’t want – it’s the exact opposite of that! In all cases, we talk and do our best to help achieve what you want. However, I would hope to have covered this eventuality during our initial meetings so that we can prepare ourselves in advance for a potential change if necessary. Although the service is very flexible on the one hand, it is not infinitely flexible; it can’t be an opportunity to just try out multiple different styles on you during fittings. We work to the design sketch in all cases and the design has some degree of flexibility, but you must make decisions during the process in order for it to progress and the design come to fruition within the timescale.


Una wedding dress by Rachel Lamb Design

Image Sarah Brookes Photography


Where do you get your fabrics?

I use UK wholesale suppliers for my fabrics. I find this is the most cost effective for the short lengths that are required to make individual wedding dresses. Those suppliers in turn source their fabrics internationally. Laces are generally European or Asia, and silks and synthetics are from Europe, the Far East and Asia. Update: There are now a few new UK manufactured laces becoming available again, at last!


I have my own fabric – will you use it for my wedding dress?

I am always happy to accommodate your own fabrics within your wedding dress if possible, but I always ask to see the fabric first to make sure it will work for your design. If I don’t think it will, I will tell you.


I’d like to use a part of another dress in my wedding dress, can this be done?

Again, if it will work then yes. I ask to see whatever it is and we discuss if it will work or not. For example, I have had brides ask to use parts of their mother’s wedding dress in their own dress. In all cases, if it works for the design, then yes. Sometimes it’s better to use the fabric rather than a portion of an existing dress.

“Rachel created such a beautiful dress for our mini ceremony during this lockdown year. She skillfully turned my mum’s 80s style wedding dress into a sleek beautiful new dress for me to wear. So special to be wearing the dress refashioned by Rachel, who worked out just how to cut the fabric so it would work with the design I chose. Thanks again for creating such a beautiful dress and for all your flexibility with the changing COVID guidelines and restrictions. I highly recommend!”

Anna,  Autumn 2020

How many dresses have you made?

I have made approximately 1000 wedding dresses for individual brides over the years.


What underwear do I need?

It depends on the design, but whatever you choose you will need your underwear from your first fitting onward. Generally I recommend a simple, moulded strapless bra and big pants or a g-string. Some dresses have cups fitted in them, and sometimes these work quite well depending on your shape and the design. Other options include very low cut bras, or stick on bras for backless dresses. Sometimes it’s better to wear no bra. In all cases keep your underwear simple. If your dress is boned you don’t really need a boned corset style undergarment unless you need a lot of support and the dress can’t provide that. In all cases, we would discuss underwear and what you will or won’t need.


I don’t know what suits me, can you help?

Of course! Come and have a chat and we can talk about it!


I know exactly what I want, how do I know you can do it?

Well ultimately you don’t know – you have to trust me. But I have over 20 years of experience making wedding dresses for brides and I am also an honest and professional person. If I can’t do something, or I don’t think it will work, I will tell you. I don’t take on work I don’t know how to create, or that I don’t understand. I want to give you a brilliant service and also to sleep well at night, as I’m sure you do too. Putting my name to a failed design is not my aim and I don’t want you to wear something that isn’t what you wanted. It’s a relationship built on trust, communication, professionalism and skill.

bespoke blue satin wedding dress

If you’re considering commissioning a bespoke wedding dress, I hope these FAQs have answered some of your questions! Can you think of any more that I haven’t answered?

To ask another question, for further information or to set up an appointment, please email me.

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